All relationships benefit from direct conversations about each partner’s mutual thoughts and feelings

There may be a variety of different actions that a partner may have. If you have a partner that is not respecting your wishes, or you are not respecting your partner’s wishes, then it will be beneficial to make a change. Have a great day, Jack!

If this relationship is no longer viable, then determine what you want for your future without her

My marriage is seriously strained at the moment that I just feel I am being punished for what I have no power over. My wife used to love me beyond human reasons. But, immediately I lost my job and registered a business that is presently struggling! She became something else… I really cant prove she’s cheating on me, but I just cant put a finger on what she’s up to. We’ve been together for 24 years and married for 16 years and 3 children…

Take this time to determine what you believe is occurring in your relationship

If you believe that she is not respecting your relationship, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you are behaving in a secretive manner, then these feelings may be reflections of your decisions. Spend additional time with your partner, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Tony!

My wife behaved like this over the last year we have been trying to work things out, I’ve not been a great husband over the years and have caused problems that didn’t need causing, I cleaned up my act to be a better husband and father, I brought us a new house for afresh start and was doing it up when she started having an emotional affair, I think there was more to it’ss I found recipes from underwear shops such as Ann summers that she hasn’t worn for me, then we separated for a while but neither of us would leave the kids, so we are stuck to together, she said she wants an open marriage where we can do what we want and bring the kids up together and that she loves me because I’m the father of her children but I just think we are both wasting our lives now and that she will never love me like a wife should love her husband again and that she is probably waiting for the children to grow up to make it easier on leaving but by then we would of both wasted our lives as we are both in our mid thirties now, we don’t really talk or do anything together she works long hours and as I work for myself I’m always getting back for the children and she is always late back or out with friends, she said it would be easier if I felt like she did so that we could just live together and bring the children up but that isn’t what I want, and all I really want is for us both to be happy weather that is us together or by ourselves which I thing is most likely now as I can’t see us getting anything back she says we should get to a new place but what kind of place is that we’re there is no love in a marriage

It sounds like your partner is no longer happy in this relationship. She may be cheating on you, and she has informed you that she is interested in having an open marriage. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Give her an opportunity to share herself with you as well. Have a great day, John!