But before any sex can be enjoyed by either gender, one must first meet a girl
Finding Girls
An understanding of women and what women want is key to having fruitful and enjoyable relations, the Kama Sutra tells our young man.
The text details where a respectable young man might meet a girl, and even details how to talk to her. The text even advocates the use of a potential ‘go-between’, someone known to both parties who can speak freely to both about their interest (or lack thereof) in each other.
The text even says that a determined young man can use a female messenger if his chosen beloved ignores his advances and is not accessible to a male go-between. The text does caution, however, saying that whenever possible, the young man should make his own advances as his courageous display is more likely to win him favor. More