That I’m too sexual which I can admit I can be, although he denies me every time
That’s how my relationship is getting
This guy sounds like he’s very controlling and manipulative–possibly emotionally abusive. If he ignores your feelings, uses lies or contradictions to manipulate you–that’s emotional abuse. If he tries to isolate you from your friends and family (possibly by undermining your trust in them), that’s a sign that abuse is occurring. The way you describe him making you feel indicates an abusive dynamic. Now I don’t have all the facts, but I advise you to exercise caution when making compromises. I left an abusive husband 11 months ago, and I had no idea how bad things were until I was out. Talk to someone you trust and don’t sugarcoat things. If you feel like you need to protect him by hiding his behavior, then that’s a sign that you probably need to leave.
My boyfriend loses his time for me, the last time we talked i got mad and he said i love you goodnight those are my last words, and after a week he doesn’t have time for me
He told a few days ago that I’m a mean person. We rarely do it anymore. We have been together for 7 years now. He refuses to take care of himself now and the more I nag the more he gets mad and longer he doesn’t shower. I’ve tried not nagging and it still didn’t work. II cant take it anymore, I love him so much but he seems so distant from me lately. He NEVER wants to do ANYTHING EVER. He goes to work then comes home and doesn’t leave the couch till I tell him to go to the bed. Today he told me that if I really knew just how much I piss him off and how he never says anything. More